This site describes what I do and how I can help you. My name is Samantha and I am a qualified and experienced Psychotherapist and Counsellor in Exminster, Exeter. I combine my professional training and experience with compassion, common sense and life experience. I work as a therapist in a safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment.
Counselling, Psychotherapy and Hypnotherapy. Bringing training, professional expertise, compassion and life experience to your journey. Where can I help you to go?
Are you having difficulty with family or romantic relationships because of past experiences, either as a child or in a previous relationship?
Do you get into the wrong relationships, only to find yourself unhappy or heartbroken – again and again?
Does this sound familiar?
Are you waking up at night unable to accept a past loss, or worrying about what’s going to happen next?
Do you feel scared that no matter what you do, the same thing will happen again and again.
Do you constantly think “What is it about me? Why can’t I be happy? What am I doing wrong?”
Or you may be a couple whose relationship is struggling. It may be that even though you talk every day about everyday things; who’s going to do the dishes etc, you never really talk anymore. You can’t remember the last time you went out together like you used to and you feel so alone. Or it may be that one of you has had an affair or is seriously tempted to, and the feelings around this are terrible.
If so, I can help.
I use my 17 years of experience working with a broad range of clients, alongside my own life experience, to enable you to have deep, lasting, and authentic connections with those around you. And – with the different parts of you, especially the parts of you that you don’t like.
“Samantha was my therapist for a number of years as we went on the long journey together to unravel my past and build a future where I saw myself in a positive light, with the inner strength to cope with challenges as they might arise.
Slowly and surely she helped me recover, at my pace, with the support I needed. My life has changed in ways I could never have imagined at the outset. Samantha has been instrumental in that outcome.”
Or maybe you have a general feeling that something isn’t right, but you’re not sure what it is.
You might be having an overwhelming feeling that you have to ‘escape’, to run away from everything you’re experiencing, almost as if you can’t get comfortable in your own skin. You might feel anxious or panicky at the thought of certain people or situations, but not understand why. You may feel a bit lost and just want a clearer idea of what you do and don’t want from your life.
I have a special interest in the areas of attachment i.e. – how we think, feel and act with others in relationship; and developmental trauma (trauma that happens when you are a child). This includes things like a parent dying, parents splitting up, or struggling with their own mental health; neglect or abuse. In essence, developmental trauma is when a parent is either frightened because of something that is happening to them, or frightening to us.
As children, we cannot understand this, and adapt in ways that can cause difficulties for us in relationships, later in life. Therefore, I work with the little child inside you who may be crying out for somebody to notice, to see you and really understand you.
I also have a special interest in grief, loss and change. But grief is not just about death. Grief can occur with the end of a relationship; a loss or change of job or home; children leaving home; or the arrival of a baby.
I charge £55 per therapy session for individuals, £60 for couples. Each session lasts an hour. I offer an initial Zoom or telephone consultation to help you decide if I am the right therapist for you. If you are a student attending a recognised counselling or psychotherapy course who requires individual counselling or psychotherapy in order to pass your course, then I charge £50 per session.
Whatever you bring, and however we choose to work together; you will be received with warmth, without judgement and with honesty.
I am currently only working online, but will shortly be offering face to face work in my therapy room in Exminster, Exeter.
I spent eight months training in Canada on how to counsel clients online, using video, chat and email. I use Zoom and have a VPN to ensure that the sessions are safe. You can learn more about online therapy here.
Working online is different but no less effective than working in person. In fact, some studies have suggested that it may be more effective. This is for many reasons: because people are generally in their own home when they have therapy, they tend to be more relaxed; because people aren’t talking face to face then they tend to find it easier to disclose things that they may not do face to face. Ever shared something on the internet that you wouldn’t necessarily have said in person? This phenomenon has been noticed so many times in the research that there is now a term for it: the Online Disinhibition Effect. People can become much more open and disinhibited when we talk online, which can only be a good thing for therapy!
Please do browse through my site to learn more about what I can offer you, and counselling and psychotherapy in general.
Counselling & Psychotherapy
You may seek counselling or psychotherapy for a number of reasons. You may not know what brings you here, just that there is something not right, or missing. Or there may be so many thoughts and feelings inside you that you don’t know what to feel or think anymore. I can work with you on an open ended basis or for an agreed time period, with the aim of enabling you to enhance your life and to live it more fully. Find out more
Hypnotherapy
There are few Psychotherapists in Exeter who are also Hypnotherapists. I worked as a Counsellor for many years before I trained as a Hypnotherapist, so you can be sure that we can work through any emotions that may come up for you as a result of a Hypnotherapy session. For further information about Hypnotherapy and the way I work, please click below. Find out more
Consultancy
I am also available for consultancy work. I have provided consultancy for Supporting People Nottinghamshire around the area of empowering and involving vulnerable adults. Fees for consultancy work are available upon request. For further information about consultancy work, please use the link provided below. Get in touch